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Mother Takes Action
Because it seems everyone has their two cents on how a kid should be raised as if every child were the same thread to be woven. It's amusing when advice comes from people who haven't raised any kids at all. When a kid needs discipline, you can't candy coat it.. or they'll only run over you. Believe me, I still remember that age. If you can get away with it, who cares? is the attitude. Guilt and being forced to see consequences is the best way to get through, and I applaud Mrs. Henderson.
Tasha Henderson...decided to teach [her daughter] a lesson.People are being critical of this woman for disciplining her child in a non-violent manner. Saying its psychologically destructive. I'd consider the long-term consequences to someone blowing off responsibility and authority more destructive. It can strongly point to not being able to respect a boss or manager, not showing up to work or constantly late, ending up with multiple jobs from not being able to keep one simply from attitude and irresponsibility. Seriously, most parents don't care. Coretha should feel lucky. Well... after she doesn't have to stand on the corner anymore. Apparently things are already shaping up for her.
She made Coretha stand at a busy Oklahoma City intersection Nov. 4 with a cardboard sign that read: “I don’t do my homework and I act up in school, so my parents are preparing me for my future. Will work for food.”
Tasha Henderson said her daughter’s attendance has been perfect and her behavior has been better since the incident. Coretha, a soft-spoken girl, acknowledged the punishment was humiliating but said it got her attention. She already has been forced by her parents to give up basketball and track because of slipping grades, and said she hopes to improve in school so she can play next year.I love it when 'professional' people pass judgement on a case they know so little details about.
Donald Wertlieb, a professor of child development at the Eliot-Pearson Department of Child Development at Tufts University, warned that such punishment could do extreme emotional damage. He said rewarding positive behavior is more effective. “The trick is to catch them being good,” he said. “It sounds like this mother has not had a chance to catch her child being good or is so upset over seeing her be bad, that’s where the focus is.”Lately we've been watching the Sopranos at home on DVD, and we're on the second season. Episode Sixteen sums up my feelings on this, Carmella talking to Janice: "How we discipline our children is none of anybody's business. Mind your --- business, keep your mouth shut when it comes to my kids, alright?"
Because it seems everyone has their two cents on how a kid should be raised as if every child were the same thread to be woven. It's amusing when advice comes from people who haven't raised any kids at all. When a kid needs discipline, you can't candy coat it.. or they'll only run over you. Believe me, I still remember that age. If you can get away with it, who cares? is the attitude. Guilt and being forced to see consequences is the best way to get through, and I applaud Mrs. Henderson.